Chapter 592: Chapter 326: The Suggestion of the Female Playboy_3
In this way, her life would have the most basic material security.
Once she has a house of her own, the next step is, of course, to find a man with decent financial conditions, who treats her well and is reliable, to marry.
If they could spend the rest of their lives together, that would be the best. If not, she would still have a house as a fallback, so she wouldn’t be afraid of being homeless in the future.
She never had high expectations, she knew her own worth, and she knew there was no way someone like her could marry into a wealthy family or to a second-generation rich kid.
She would definitely find an honest and reliable man she finds pleasing to the eye, and this man must be loyal to her and give his all for their small family.
She believes that it is reasonable to have such expectations for her future husband, as this is a rule widely acknowledged by society.
But Hong Xiaodan, who is a true rich and pretty girl, surprisingly told her these things, not even demanding that her future husband be completely devoted to her; she even allowed him to have other women outside.
Honestly, Hong Xiaodan’s notion somewhat overturned her values as a playboy.
"Are you serious?" Han Shipei looked at Hong Xiaodan with a somewhat incredulous expression.
"Of course it’s true," Hong Xiaodan said with a bitter smile, "I know it’s hard for you to believe. But I’ve thought it all through. If you want to hold on to a man you truly love, you often have to compromise. Otherwise, you won’t be able to keep that man."
"That’s too disheartening to say!" Han Shipei said angrily, "What era are we in now? We women have long since stood up, we don’t need to live humbly anymore, and we certainly don’t need to submit passively."
"This has nothing to do with eras. In terms of relationships, every era is the same. Now, I am the weaker party, and I must offer enough leverage to have a hope of getting the man I like."
These words were not untrue, and Han Shipei could only sigh and say, "Alright. If you want to get Chen Feng, that flirtatious man, you indeed need to put forward a certain amount of leverage. Your family’s situation is a disadvantage at his end, but it could also become an advantage. For example, didn’t you say he recently started a film company? His company will certainly want to invest in producing films and dramas in the future, right? They’ll definitely look for investments, and that’s when you can offer to invest. That way, you’d have business dealings with him, become business partners, and naturally get closer over time."
"If someday he faces financial difficulties, you can step in and lend him money. Can he not appreciate that? You have money, which is already a significant advantage. But the premise is that you need to be willing to spend money on him. In this regard, men and women are the same. Women like generous men, and men also like generous women."
Listening to Han Shipei’s words, Hong Xiaodan’s eyes couldn’t help but brighten up; she really hadn’t considered this kind of approach before.
Because despite her family’s wealth and their never being stingy with her money, she has never been in the habit of spending money lavishly.
Now, Han Shipei’s words opened a new door for her.
Since reaching adulthood, her family has been giving her several million a year as pocket money, but she hasn’t had many places to spend it, and over the years she had saved up thirty or forty million.
And that’s just her personal savings. If she really needed money, she could call her parents and would have millions at her disposal within minutes.
Her parents never said anything about her spending a few million. They were just that generous.
"You’re right, it seems I can establish a connection with him through business. Shipei, your idea is really good. Go on, do you have any other good ideas?"